Cupcakes in the Parking Lot

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I did an interview this week for an upcoming Eagles’ Call profile and heard an interesting story. The man I was interviewing was home-schooled, started taking community classes at age 15, and had his Eagle board of review the night before he moved away to attend a four-year college. When he emerged from his board of review (held out of town at the council service center), his three best friends from Scouting were there with cupcakes, and they held an impromptu Eagle court of honor.

Now, many Scouters would say that was the wrong thing to do: his paperwork hadn’t been submitted to the national office, his parents and Scout leaders weren’t involved, and there was none of the pomp and circumstance that most Eagle courts of honor feature. (And those Scouts certainly didn’t buy a copy of my book, The Eagle Court of Honor Book!)

But this new Eagle Scout got just the sort of ceremony he wanted. He was not interested in being in the spotlight, and besides he had already shifted to college mode. A good alternative might have been to do a ceremony when he was home for the holidays (something like the College and Career ceremony in The Eagle Court of Honor Book), but that’s not what happened.

My point here is not that you should do the same sort of thing with your next Eagle Scout. My point is that you should think about his unique situation, personality, and preferences before you set a date and write a script. Make the ceremony fit the Scout–whatever that ends up looking like–and he’ll still be talking fondly about it 14 years later like the man I interviewed this week.


For more great ideas, check out my ebook, Showtime: 45 Top Tips from EagleBook.com and The Eagle Court of Honor Book; it costs just $2.99 and is available for immediate download from both EagleBook.com and Amazon.com.

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